This article was not written
by me. I found it on the internet. It was penned by Lily Hensen. Lily is a 25
year old exhibitionist who lives in the mid-west. At the time of this writing
she had been exhibiting her body in public for approximately 8 years. What
follows are her suggestions for the budding female exhibitionist. I hope you
enjoy the information.
name is Lily! This is the first part of a two-part guide for exhibitionists, and
anyone interested in the subject. I've been showing myself off for years, and
I'm using this as an easy way to share hints and tips, not to mention a few
juicy examples, with anyone who can benefit from my experience. This volume
includes ideas for basic-level exhibitionism. What the basic means is
exhibitionism that's usually tamer than intermediate and advanced levels, but
more importantly it always appears unintentional. Basic, intermediate, and
advanced refer to the levels of risk in what's being tried, in other words how
risky it is.
basic exhibitionism, clothes become you're most important tool, besides
location. This may seem to be the opposite of what it should be, but you don't
have to be completely naked to show off.
The first rule of clothes is: no bra. In the most basic forms of exhibitionism you're just showing people your nipples through your shirt. As you move up, you show them the naked nipple, then other parts. Bras are never useful, unless that's what you want to show people.
your nipples through your shirt can be obvious, or an art form. The key is to
make the viewer question whether you're doing it on purpose, or whether what
they see is a total fluke.
obvious way to accomplish this is with a thin, white T-shirt. Thin, white dress
shirts, dresses, and such work just as well. There's also mesh and see-through
materials. The problem is all of these tend to be glaringly obvious. Tight
fitness clothes, of varying colors, and thin material of any color that cling
tight and makes the areola just barely visible is excellent. Tube tops are a
little out-of-date but work really well.
these clothes to the supermarket, or the mall, somewhere where there's a lot of
strangers walking around in close quarters; and wait for the double-takes. It's
so much fun.
standing in the middle of the freezer section of our local grocery store,
pausing over the pizzas, when I noticed a guy staring at my chest over the
freezer. I was wearing just a faded white halter top, my nipples were pretty
visible already to anyone who dared to look, but in the cold air of the freezer
my nipples had stiffened to attention and glancing down I was aware they stood
out against the material of my shirt.
out by the pizza another two to three minutes bending and twisting as I examined
all the brands before the guy's wife or girlfriend showed up to drag him away. I
gave her a wink as she glared at me. She smiled back and shook her head.
want to accentuate this form of attention a bit, there's a great little
invention called "sweater bumpers." They are small metal rings that
fit around your nipple to keep them erect.
those of us too chicken to pierce their nipples, this is a great way to
highlight what you're trying so hard to get them to look at anyway. Nipple rings
are, of course, just as effective, and in certain cases you may want to try
nipple clips or loops, with a thin length of chain connecting them. And speaking
of chain, if you've ever attended an SCA or fantasy-related events you may have
seen women clad only in chain mail. It leaves little to the imagination, and
often - the tops especially - are created with just enough space between the
links to allow anyone who concentrates, all the details of your nipples.
up to work one of those booths once, and let me tell you I got a lot of
way to expose yourself using just your clothes is clothing that remains just
loose enough, or moves just enough now and then to give the viewer an
unobstructed line of sight. This is trickier, but far more rewarding. Watching
some guy walking around me, pretending to do something else, just to try and
confirm to himself he saw what he did makes me hot every time.
easiest tool for this is just leaving a loose button-up shirt open to a level
slightly below your nipples. Be sure to lean over a lot and turn almost sideways
whenever someone comes into range.
variation of this is to use a see-through shirt and an open jacket. The
advantage with this is that you can leave the jacket open all the way,
increasing the likelihood that you can "accidentally" expose yourself
at just the right time. Wearing overalls or a vest with no shirt works the same
couldn't believe it, but there she was sitting at the next table at the small
coffee shop we like. I pointed her out to Al and we watched slyly as she turned
and moved freely. Her shirt was open nearly to the waist, and we could see
without a doubt that she wasn't wearing a bra.
sitting with her probably didn't have as good a view as we did. There was a
light breeze, we were out on the patio, and as she sat the wind would expand the
material of her shirt on the far side of us, giving us a fantastic view of her
pert breast and erect nipple.
stayed a lot longer than we had time for, and finally had to give up our table
to an older couple. I wanted to talk to her, see if she was doing it on purpose,
but I knew I couldn't and breathed a heavy sigh as we left.
Lily Henson/ 1999 - 2001
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