I think that everyone has some erogenous zones. Many people have multiple zones that are a turn on for them and others have very few. Personally I'm in the first category - my whole body is one big erogenous zone.
Finding your partner's most erotic spots can result in some great foreplay and fantastic sex. Since partners don't tend to come with maps marking all the erogenous zones for us we have to indulge in some experimentation. I think that it would be great if a new partner came labeled with "push here to excite me" buttons
Men often seem to think that their only erogenous zone is their penis and the area around it. From experience I've found that this simply isn't true. It will vary from man to man so I encourage both partners to be willing to explore.
With that in mind here are some hints for some of the more common erogenous zones. This will give you a starting point to figure out what works for your partner. Then all you need to do is expand them to find the recipe that completely wows your partner.
Fingertips - I find it highly erotic when someone runs their tongue over the tips of my fingers, gently grazing my skin with their teeth. It just sends shivers up and down my spine!
Ears/Earlobes - This is a pretty well known erogenous zone I would think, however use some care when you tackle this area. I personally don't like having someone's tongue crammed into my ear - perhaps this stems from having gotten too many "wet willies" in my lifetime. A nice gentle licking around the outside of the ear as well as on the earlobe has a completely different effect.
Scalp - I can't think of anyone who doesn't like getting their hair shampooed at the hairdressers. Just thinking about it makes me tingle. I guess it's the pressure of the jets of water and that great massaging action that hairdressers are good at that makes this work. A previous lover would get so excited when he went for a haircut that he'd come home and we'd have to fool around! So try this on your partner at home - no, I don't mean go wash their hair! Just try massaging the scalp and gently scratching it.
Neck - The neck is an incredible erogenous zone. You can try flicking your tongue or your fingers over the small of the neck and get amazing results. My favorite spot though is on the side of my neck right behind the ear. I get the shivers when someone works on this spot and hearing them breathe right beside your ear is just awesome. I'm a very auditory person so the sound of someone breathing beside me ear or a particularly deep voice talking to me can just send shivers down my spine in a big hurry.
One point of caution here: don't overdo it and leave marks. While some people enjoy marks most will find it's rather inconvenient to try and cover up a hickey when you have to go to work the next day.
- Inner Thigh - This is a popular zone that most people are aware of. The trick here is in what you don't touch. Keep the touch very light and very casual, do not concentrate heavily on this area.
Sacrum - This spot is found on your back at the base of your spine just above the crease of the buttocks. This wonderful spot responds well to light massaging. Ask your partner how much pressure they want you to add while you are massaging the sacrum.
- Back of the Knee - From what I understand this spot is not that popular even though it has some of the softest, thinnest and most sensitive skin on the body.
- Inside of the Arm - This is another spot that seems to be totally neglected. Lightly run fingertips or nails over the area between the wrist and elbow and see how this works for your partner.
- Feet - This is one of my most favorite spots in the whole world. I love to have my feet massaged and rubbed. It sure feels like if the person was to hit the right spots I could orgasm from the foot massage alone. The pressure has to be just right though; otherwise I'll be dissolving into a huge fit of the giggles.
Breasts/Nipples - Last in my list but certainly not least. Everyone knows that the breasts and nipples are highly erotic zones. What some people don't seem to think of is that men can often have nipples that are very sensitive as well.
This is my take on erogenous zones. Don't forget that your mind is the largest erogenous zone we have. Make use of naughty fiction or erotic pictures to get the juices flowing. You may be amazed at the results.
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