Masturbation for Two
has long been a solo activity for most men and women. This seems to be a very
private activity and one that people are not always willing to share with their
partners. I know that a lot of partners are threatened by their partners need or
desire to masturbate. They usually feel like there is something that they are
not providing for their partner or that they are inadequate sexually or donít
sexually satisfy their partner. So rather than have their partners be
disappointed or upset they sneak into the bathroom and masturbate privately and
hope not to get caught.
a masturbation experience can be one of the most intimate acts you can
experience with your partner. I find that for me it gives me an opportunity to
observe my partner and watch his reactions as he masturbates. I donít feel
threatened by his masturbation. Quite often it occurs when I am not really in
the mood to do anything about his erection. I enjoy watching him take care of
himself Ė actually I find it very fascinating to tell the truth.
the other side of the coin is a completely different feeling when I masturbate
myself and he watches. Itís that feeling of being caught with oneís hand in
the cookie jar that adds a little extra spice to the situation. The fact that
someone is watching tends to heighten the sensation for myself. I can easily get
lost and imagine that several people are watching me get off.
Mutual masturbation can be done as foreplay to intercourse or it can be done all on itís own right to orgasm. Either way it can be a lot of fun and create a very intimate session for you and your partner. If you have sex toys that you enjoy playing with they can come in very handy when you are pleasuring each other in this fashion. At times my partner will be masturbating and I will join in by rubbing his balls for him or even sucking them into my mouth. This also works equally well the other way around. I will massage my clitoris while he runs his fingers across the inside of my thighs, dipping into my vagina and rubbing the area around my clitoris. Iíve found it very erotic to have my fingers touching his as they roam across my private parts.
Personally I have found that mutual masturbation is a great activity for
those lazy days, when you really donít want to crawl out of bed at all. This
is definitely a great way to wake up! Lying beside each other itís fairly easy
to reach over and run your fingers through his pubic hair or skim your fingers
lightly over his balls and cock. As you play you will notice that his cock will
arise to the occasion. At this point if he hasnít already started to work his
hands over towards your pussy thereís nothing wrong with grabbing his hand and
directing it to your pussy yourself. Heíll get the idea.
Lubrication is always a good idea. If there isnít enough lubrication
then sensitive skin can become chafed and extremely uncomfortable. Now there are
many different types of lubrication that you can use.
Some of the choices you will make in choosing lubrication might depend on
whether or not youíre going to indulge in oral sex afterwards. If this is the
case then you want to use something that will at least taste good and not leave
a bad taste in your mouth. There are lots of love lotions available from the sex
shops that will fill the bill here. If taste isnít an issue then go with a
water-soluble based lubrication. If things start to dry out you just have to add
a little bit of moisture to it and youíre all set to go again. If you donít
have any of the lubrication above available then just use what comes naturally
which is your saliva and juices that your body produces when you are sexually
Mutual masturbation can be done in a number of different
positions. Itís simply a matter of finding what is the most comfortable for
you and your partner.
The most common position is lying side by side on your
backs in the bed. Your arm will cross over your partnerís arm or vice versa
and reach to their most sensitive spots. I find that sometimes I have to scoot
down the bed a little ways to make the reach a little easier. Iím shorter than
he is by a bit. This position also works quite well when you are sitting on the
couch watching television or even perhaps watching a naughty movie.
Another position that can be used for mutual masturbation is for you both to be sitting facing one another with genitals close together. I think itís easiest if this is done in a semi-recline position so that you are able to reach your partnerís genitals easily.
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